When I think back to my high-school sex ed classes, the message was always very clear: "Don't have sex, but if you are going to do it, make sure you love the person and are in a relationship." While that's decent advice, it's not necessarily realistic.Sex in a relationship is great, but life doesn't always work out that way.

This is a reality that I was completely unprepared for.

When I was 18, I started seeing a guy who was quite a bit older than me.

The first time we slept together, he came over, we had sex and then he went home five minutes later.

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When I think back to sex educationclass in high school, I mostly remember a lot of awkward diagrams and out of date educational videos from the 1970s.

To say it left a lot to be desired, is the understatement of the century.

Although we covered the basics of the "birds and the bees", when it came to casual sex and hooking up the general message was "Don't do it!

" Although I hope sex ed class has changed a lot since I was a teen in the mid-90s, I'm not holding my breath.